23, human, Aries, she/her, Santiago, Región Metropolitana, Chile
hetero, monog, mtf, queer, woman
Haven't posted in a while
Anyone from Chile?
:3
May I talk to anyone in DMs about it?
It was on accident, he was so drunk he thought they were his shoes because they're nearly identical except his are 6 sizes smaller
Context: Unexpectedly ran into him at a party, we broke up 2 years ago, no bad feelings though, we actually had a great time lol
I was at a Basketball Game, Le Mezcle vs. Dysphoria Basketball (Queer Team vs. Trans Team)
Me and a trans guy bet, I betted on Dysphoria, he on Le Mezcle
I lost
I owe him a soda now
F
Still, fun!
I had to tell two trans guys they're felons now, this happens EVERY SINGLE YEAR
If your country has Mandatory Military Service for all men 18-24, and you're male and between 18-24, check if you were summoned, there's a lot of ways to get excused, not showing up is a bad way uugh
Move with some of my trans friends and my bf to the south and start a Cooperative Farm
Good or bad idea?
But at least you can fight it, someone is being an asshole? You can laugh at them and call out their pathetic hateful views
But accidental misgendering? That sucks even more, cause you can't fight it, you can just accept the apologies and move on, but now feeling dysphoric
:3
That if I get SRS my bf will stop being attracted to me
What should I do to calm these thoughts down?
I need a boy next to me to hug, rn, I feel lonely ;c
Because I ran out of Characters I couldn't clarify it but me and my transmasc cousin just have the dynamic of saying affirming misogyny stuff to each other, he's not a bad person he's just goofy lmao, but "female brain" was not something I expected even from this so I included it
Attend Family Meeting for Xmas
Normally he doesn't go because he hates Xmas and anything related to it but I said he could go to just eat turkey
Anyways, my transmasc cousin said to me "Obviously you can't understand because you have a female brain"
Welcome to my family lmao
I have never actually celebrated Christmas in my entire life... Not sure how to... Or even why I would do it now... But I want to... How do I celebrate Christmas?
I feel like it would be a fun to celebrate holiday, but I don't feel like I'm justified to celebrate it, because I'm not Christian and my family doesn't celebrate it. What justification do I have to observe it? None
I could wake up next to a boy every morning, and make him breakfast and kiss him and he would hug me and tell me I'm a good girl and we'd be the perfect couple
Gods I need it so badly
Had to file like a thousand forms for the Interior Ministry and Ministry of Defense, but now I'm officially with self-defense equipment!
(Yes, it's a funny contrast between here and the US where you can walk into a Walmart and walk out with a gun with just an ID show)
And today I woke up with a trans guy on top of me, and both of us naked
Went to make ourselves breakfasts, my dad showed up to make himself coffee, then he said "Ignacia, remind me to get you a bed that creaks less" and both our faces turned red while my dad just left with his ☕
Spent 2 hours smashing apples to make apple juice
I barely filled 1/5 of what I need in apple juice for the next step
Help...
Most families in my country are cueca dancers and the younger generation, specially queer, hates it, and meanwhile I have the *exact* opposite dynamic, my family can't dance cueca and doesn't want to, and then there's me, trans girl who always has cueca cloths ready lol
I was at a party yesterday, at a night club
I'm at a party rn, at a friends house
I have a party tomorrow, possibly at a Night Club
I have work on Monday
When you wanna start practicing a new hobby but discover all spaces in your country for doing that hobby are controlled by fascists
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I'm mostly excited due to a recent situation in my country and I wanna share it lol, but 280 characters probably isn't enough
Good news: I will be getting SRS in 1.5 years!
Bad News: I have 1.5 years to save 8.5k for it... I have $15 saved
Using a bicycle, it's perfect, I get to workout using my bike AND earn money AND see the city AND I found out I pass enough to be catcalled by random guys on the street lmao
In my local Mall, the first floor bathrooms only have women's, for the men's is just stairs
I was exiting the women's bathroom and a guy going downstairs saw my trans pin as I was going outside and jokingly said "I bet you transitioned to avoid these stairs" and laughed
Can it be considered my Closet Stage was the 3 hours between my Egg Cracking and Coming out to my Dad? Like, I immediately made the determination to come out but technically I was in the closet those 3 hours??
I always say I was never closeted but idk
Men spoke over me at an Assembly, interrupted me every time I tried to give my 2 cents
(I doubt it was intentional but goddamn was it funny and annoying at the same time)
I get the LGBT Flag is not a national symbol, but are you seriously removing it from the City Hall as your first action as Mayor? You couldn't even sit on the Mayor Chair first? And in the middle of the Central Government Promoting Queer Rights? How tf do you not expect backlash?
Simultaneously being a Chilean Patriot and a Trans Person who's openly so
"You must respect me because it is the base of the social contract that keeps our nation, our Republic, together, the mutual respect of us all"
Transphobic Patriots: [explode]
Regarding Xmas Dinner, because my dad 90% of his siblings all don't celebrate so they don't show up to it, we do show up later to compensate though, and the other sister does celebrate but
1) She's from another city
2) She's a transphobe so my grandparents don't want her around
Check comments of the Chilean Government's Instagram Posts regarding the Anti-Transphobic Discrimination Campaign where I starred, find TERFs and other transphobes, and block them
Really in the best spirit of the campaign (about fighting hate speech on Social Media)
Among all good shit that happened yesterday and today, I finish today in a guy's bed with him on top of me, what better way to start a week lmao
The Owner of one of the Biggest Night Clubs in my City (it's not a Queer Club but it has historically been Queer Friendly) contacted me *personally* to comment I'm enough of a regular customer to get a custom card that comes with discounts on tickets and alcohol
I have the biological mechanisms needed to induce lactation
I plan on having children some day, so it's a pretty big deal for me, sure, it needs to be artificially induced by increasing E and Progesterone by 300% for 9 months to simulate pregnancy pretty much, but it's possible!