21, white, Taurus, he/they, Omaha, Nebraska, United States
androg, bi, disabled, fag, fluid, ftm, monog, queer
My name is Rowan & I'm looking for friends so here's a little bit about me.
I'm 21, genderqueer-transman (he/they) & bi. I also have AUDHD so I find it hard to socialize irl.
I enjoy art, makeup/drag, thrifting, cooking/baking, true crime, etc
Feel free to dm!
(I AM TAKEN)
A "masc" outfit with a full face of makeup.
I GOT MY TOP SURGERY OCTOBER 13TH!!! I'M 3 WEEKS POST-OP!!!
LITERALLY BETTER THAN I EVER IMAGINED!!! AHHHHH!!! ♡♡♡
Got my top surgery yesterday and didn't die like my anxiety said I would !!!
YIPPEEE!!!
Until my top surgery check in!!! 4 hours until my surgery!!!
And 12 hours before I check in...nervous but also insanely excited!!! Please give me some reassurance and kind words, I have NEVER had surgery before and anxiety is kind of taking over...
Still excited though!!!
I am having top surgery tomorrow and I'm having some mild allergies due to ragweed pollen and dust. It's not anything serious and it's
gotten a lot better over the past few days, but I'm scared they will cancel it.
Is that something they can cancel over if not severe???
Top surgery is tomorrow and I'm nervous. It was SUPPOSED to be October 6th (basically a week ago) but they canceled it 6 HOURS before my surgery because my surgeon was sick. I'm so worried sonething like that will happen again.
MANIFEST GOOD THINGS FOR ME!!! ♡♡♡
I'm worried they might postpone it AGAIN because my allergies are acting up. They're pretty mild, but I'm still nervous. Can't take any allergy meds either. I've been using saline nasal spray, drinking mint tea and lots of water. Masks too...
I'm so worried 😭🙏
I need friends PLEASEEEEEEEEE😭🙏
I am getting my top surgery on October 13th and have unfortunately not been able to save up enough money. My job has been cutting my hours horrifically and I have only had enough money to pay my bills. Anything helps!!!
https://gofund.me/1d13e5748
My top surgery is next Monday (Oct 13) and I have been unable to save money for my recovery. My bf is helping me to the best of his abilities, but I am stressed.
I hate asking for help, but this would help so much! THANK YOU GUYS!!! ♡♡♡
Venmo:@Rowan-Jay
Cashapp:$RowanJay0426
My top surgery was supposed to be today, but it got canceled because my surgeonis sick. It's now rescheduled for next Monday Octobed 13th, but fuckkkkkkk it sucks. Oh well, I've been waiting almost a decade, what's one more week? 🥲🥲🥲
I am so so so soooo anxious but so so so soooo excited. I check in at 11:30am and my actual surgery is at 1pm. Oh my god ahhhhhhhhh!!!!
I KNOW this sounds so silly, but I'm scared of dying 😭🙏
I KNOW fatalities are less than one in 50,000.
Pleaseeee I need kind words!!!
2 DAYS!!! 2 FUCKING DAYS!!! I'VE BEEN WAITING FOR THIS FOR ALMOST A DECADE!!! HOLY SHITTTTT!!!!
3 DAYS UNTIL MY TOP SURGERY!!!
4 days until my top surgery bitches!!! Gonna be down like 6 pounds!!! No more fucking tits soon!!! LETS FUCKING GOOOOOO!!!
I need friends!!! I cannot socialize in public. I have INSANEEEEE social anxiety and cool people intimidate me A LOT!!!
Pleaseee don't be shy!!! I love talking to people, I'm just nervous.
OHMYGODOHMYGODOHMYGODOHMYGODOHMYGODOHMYGODOHMYGODOHMYGODOHMYGODOGMYGODOHMYGODOHMYGODOHMYGODOHMYGODOHMYGODOHMYGOOODDD
AFTER 8 YEARS OF WAITING FUCKING FINALLYYYYYYYYY!!!!
PEOPLE OF OMAHA AND SURROUNDING AREAS!!!!
I am thinking about putting together a peaceful trans rights protest! I went to a protest for the first time today and it really inspired me. I have so many signs already!
Pleaseeeeee let me know if you're interested!!! ♡♡♡
I think my manager is going to fire me because he can't schedule for shit and gets mad when I can't come in early!
It's not my job to fix your poor scheduling bud! I hate this job anyways!!!
Yayyy I love working!!! ♡♡♡
My top surgery is basically in two weeks and I'm nervous about not wearing tape to bind. I do NOT pass with just my binder on and I'm mortified. It could potentially put me in a dangerous situation at work.
I just want to LIVE!!!! Is that like, impossible now???? I'm not a threat to ANYONE!!!! I am not a terrorist. I am not a threat to national security. I am not a mental case. Why do people care about MY personal identity SO MUCH????
And it's just be a huge dick and have no individuality...
I'm getting my top surgery October 6th and I'm pretty nervous. Hella excited, but nervous. Do any of y'all have any advice? What helped you be less nervous? Do I need certain things to prep for surgery and to be comfortable in the healing process?
Any and all advice helps!!!
MY TOP SURGERY GOT MOVED UP FOR THE SECOND FUCKING TIME IN A WEEK!!! IT WAS ORGINALLY FEBRUARY 18TH AND THEN THEY MOVED IT UP TO OCTOBER 27TH. NOW IT'S OCTOBER 6TH. FUCKING OCTOBER 6TH. OH MY GOD AHHH FUCK!!!!
And wrongs.
Shoplift from your local Walgreens your majesty ♡♡♡
Wear what you want. Identify how you want. Have conflicting labels. Be a man and wear a dress. Be a woman and grow out your body hair. Be nothing and just be you. It truly does not matter.
Yes, structured gendered labels fit others, but they don't have to fit you.
Be you.
Need some friends to talk to!!! Would really prefer people who aee 21+
I'm a bisexual (taken) genderqueer-transman. AUDHD & CPTSD. Also a chronic pain baddie!!! (possible pots/eds) ♡♡♡
I'm a genderqueer trans man!
I've simply just been using the label trans man, but it felt wrong. It felt like there was more to describe my identity.
I'm a genderqueer trans man.
Top surgery scheduled for February 18th 2026!!!!!!
Pleaseeee I need friends!!! 21+ please and no older than 25!!! Please send dms :)