27, Aquarius, they/them, Houston, Texas, United States
ace, androg, bi, disabled, enby, intersex, queer
It is 100% dehumanizing and harmful to the perception of Nonbinary people as a whole for media to continue to depict nonbinary people as non-humans, aliens, fusions, etc. It is not good representation point blank, and also confuses sex and gender.
I admit it, I hate these shows purely because they perpetuate the cliche of having a nonbinary character being some non-human being such as an alien, misconstruing sex and gender and the weird ass notion that Intersex = Nonbinary somehow. Make nonbinary people humans, you cowards
The same cisgender folk who preach about not wanting to be in a relationship with trans/nb folk are the same ones who get offended by T4T folk. Like we're supposed to respect that they don't wanna be in a relationship with a trans person but won't respect we don't want them.
I don't trust people who say because someone is passing (in any context whether it be race, gender, sexuality, religion, etc) as a reason why they must have privilege. If your supposed privilege (safety) is contingent on you keeping yourself secret, it isn't a freaking privilege.
But I finally got my fiance's cat to like me. She asks me for pets, wants me to watch her eat, and let's me play with her.
Don't let your dreams be memes.
Going on a diet always made me feel intimidated, but saying "I'm making healthier choices" makes me feel better. Switching off soda, not eating as much overly sugary candy, stuff like that.
Like sugar free jolly ranchers, they use sugar alcohol. Guess what happens if you eat a moderate amount (not an excessive amount, an average amount) of them? They have laxative properties. Be so fucking careful y'all. I just got forcibly signed up for the jolly rancher cleanse.
With piercings, tattoos, or unnatural hair colors! I worked as a cashier for a bit and I had bright red hair, old lady comes up and says she wishes she could do something like that when she was younger, I asked why she couldn't do it now, it was like a bulb went off for her.
Besides a smart phone, I do not want any smart devices in my home. I want to have a treadmill, a salt shaker, an oven, or refrigerator that does not require Internet or a membership for me to operate it!
I want someone clingy that helps me slowly become clingy as well. The constant talking, affection, "saw this and thought of you", stuff like that.
Relationships, I think. I feel like I've developed a detachment from others and it's really hard to overcome it. I have this very small circle of people I have but feel too intimidated to go outside of it. I do long for friends, qpr, all of that, but it's so hard.
I have a phobia of bugs, an extreme one, despite never having a particularly bad incident with one. Meanwhile I got mauled by a cat once while protecting my dog from it and I still spend years trying to get my fiance's cat to like me.
He was a therapist at the LGBT center in town. He helped me get on a grant so my therapy was free, he helped me make so much progress, he was the best medical professional I've ever met. He got cancer. He had to go into early retirement because the chemo was really effecting him.
I admit it, I would like to be in something like a closed triad or quad.
It's on SIGHT. They had to take down the site for a bit because someone flooded it with copyrighted content like Disney which would have potentially caused a lot of legal troubles.
Message me your usernames and I'll follow you!
Had a lesbian hit on me.
"I'm Nonbinary, not a woman."
"Oh I'm attracted to woman and nonbinary people."
I don't know how to tell some of these people that it is disrespectful AF. Fucking hell. Women and nonbinary people aren't a singular gender. We aren't just "other" women.
Adora shouldn't have ended up with Catra in the end. Catra suck.
Finding some new songs I really liked just to find out they were made by a trump supporter and COVID conspiracy nut.
We met on okcupid of all places btw. Literally the day I was going delete the app because I was annoyed with it she messaged me and then I blinked and now we are engaged and have a cat and dog.
But what about enbylvania?
"what do YOU bring to the relationship?"
I draw her and her friends art for free 💅 Custom character art for their d&d campaigns and everything.
Having the stereotypical autistic tech nerd trans woman as a wife means half of what she is interested in goes over my head BUT I don't have to worry about computer troubles.
Let me know where you get your clothes, especially if it's online.
Had an MRI yesterday, there was two receptionists. One called me sir, the other called me ma'am, both looking confused at the other. Very gender affirming.
I take testosterone, didn't know until my appointment with my Endo yesterday there is a medication that helps with not wanting body hair, facial hair, etc. So I'm on that now.
My fiance is extremely attractive. I'm not saying that because I'm biased out of love. Literally everyone around her finds her beautiful, except herself.
My best friend is getting married in October, obviously me and my fiance are invited. So this means I can finally buy my fiance a formal dress. I'm so excited.
But I am posing as a trans man with my family. So that means I can't wear skirts or dresses around them. I haven't worn one in so long I am now legitimately nervous to wear one again but I kinda wanna wear one.
If I change my phone's theme (wallpaper, icons, etc) then it makes me too anxious to use my phone.
Upon the victim. It's hard to balance the need for justice inside of me and my morality, I know the prison system and death penalty is corrupt and prioritizes punishment instead of rehabilitation. The traumatized victim inside of me wants my attacker to suffer not to get better.
My mom's fat terrier (not a typo) has injured his leg and he keeps coming upstairs to me for comfort even though I told my mom to not let him climb stairs. 😞 I'm tired y'all.
I'd kindate (or I guess QPR in my case), not kidding.